I say ount as the dating bar in New York is so low – ha! The apps are pretty cool when you think about it. They give you access to so many more people than you’d ordinarily meet. Of course this means more work/screening/messaging; but it’s mostly worth it. Lastly here, for what it’s worth, I really liked Matthew Hussey’s book. The title (and cover) are super cheesy so maybe rip the cover off or pretend you’re in high school and make a book cover, but read it – it’s packed with a lot of smart info. Handling Rejection. Don’t take it personally. Of course you can be annoyed – we’re only human. But realize it literally has nothing to do with you. Someone might stop talking to you but maybe they just deleted the app.