Discussion – Why Do Cheaters Affair Down? There’s an axiom that we have noticed from comments, emails and observations that seems to indicate that most all cheaters “affair down.” In general, this means that the person someone cheats with tends not to be as attractive, interesting, engaging, etc. as the primary partner who is being cheated on. “I have never seen a situation where I felt an individual “affaired up”- meaning that they end up with a better person. It may seem like a better decision at the time, but it will prove it to be a step down.” If nothing else, it will be a step down in terms of maturity, character, integrity, intelligence, loyalty, spirituality, sincerity, etc. Discussion – Why Do Cheaters Affair Down? The reasons for why a person “affairs down” are potentially limitless, but the one noticed most often seems to be that the affair partner made the cheater feel good kissbrides.com Recursos extra while stroking his/her ego so much that it didn’t matter what he/she looked like or how his/her character was.